After our boys were taken away from us by CPS in 1999, I began to search the Internet for information that might help us to get them back. One of the websites that I found was that of the National Coalition for Child Protection Reform, www.nccpr.org. That organization advocates for systemic reform to policy makers and legislative bodies but does not deal with individual cases.
A helpful website was created by Suzanne Shell. After reading it, I purchased a copy of her book,
Profane Justice. Although my belief system differs from Suzanne's, I found her practical approach to be very helpful guidance. I was very impressed with her efforts to train family advocates and to proactively let people know what they needed to know in order to protect themselves from systemic abuses.
One thing that most impacted my family's situation was the administrative law flavor of dependency cases. Neither fish nor fowl, dependency court was different from both criminal court and civil court, where, presumably, rules of evidence apply and hearsay can only be admitted under certain exceptions to the exclusionary rule. In dependency court, social workers were free to include whatever they wanted to in their reports, without regard to hearsay. Not only were inaccuracies and untruths included, many of their written statements were highly objectionable from a legal standpoint. Nonetheless, those reports were admitted
wholesale into evidence. I found that the court typically accepted whatever the Department of Social Services said as truth, without question. Thus, once accused in the allegations of a filed petition, parents were treated as guilty until they could prove themselves innocent.
Consequently, the first things I recommend are that the burden of proof be shifted and the standard for proof be changed. These cases should require the state to prove guilt, and to do so by virtue of the standard of, at a minimum, clear and convincing evidence. This is NOT just a
preponderance of the evidence, but
clear and convincing evidence.
Next, the mandated reporter provision in the law regarding the reporting of suspected cases of child abuse and/or neglect needs to be eliminated. Allowing teachers, coaches, etc.
no discretion to make a reasoned assessment before reporting cases to CPS is one of the things that caused us to end up in the meat grinder. It was all so needless. Once the ball started rolling, though, there was no way to stop it.
In our case, the injury that lead to our boys being taken away was a black-and-blue mark left behind after an accidental bump on our younger son's forehead. And even more ridiculously, on that particular morning, we had costumed our son as Thomas Alva Edison, for he was to present a book report on a biography of the inventor.
My wife fashioned a costume that came close to the depiction of Edison on the cover of the book, and I went so far as to put gel in his hair and part it right down the middle, as in the style worn by Edison. When I did so, it uncovered that black-and-blue mark on his forehead that had otherwise been hidden by the straight hair bangs that normally fell down to his eyebrows.
Now, I ask: would I -- or would
anyone -- have done such a thing if they had any inkling that they might be accused of child abuse?
For all of you out there who either are parents or were once a child yourself (and I hope that covers everyone!), I must ask whether you or your child ever bumped your head by accident. Let me see a show of hands, please. O.K, looks like about half of you, if not slightly more. So if a child has a bump on his head, should teachers be mandated to report that to CPS or should they be allowed the discretion to try to find out what happened?
I am convinced that had we been given the opportunity to meet with the mandated reporter, she would have realized that what was suspected child abuse was clearly the result of our son having accidentally bumped his head, an incident that his parents had absolutely nothing to do with. In fact, our son did not even remember at first how he did it. Only later did he recall the details of what had happened. It was entirely innocent and accidental, and no one else was involved.
That was just the tip of the iceberg for us. So many other things could have been done to prevent the case from going forward if only some
reasonable efforts had been made to do a thorough investigation of our family. I'll go into that topic in a subsequent post.
Here's what it's about for me: in April of 1999, my wife and I had our two sons taken from their elementary school one afternoon. They were first placed into a group home and then into foster care. It never should have happened.
I very much appreciate the incisiveness of the criticism -- much deserved -- leveled by Mssrs. Heimpel and Wexler against the Times' reporting in the recent series of articles by Mr. Therolf. Celeste Fremon is correct when she identifies the straw man arguments constructed by David Lauter in his response. I hope that Mr. Lauter will get past them, make his way into a more forthright self-examination of the Times' reportage and continue this very important conversation.
The underlying fuss, beyond the reportage, is about a curious system of financial incentive/disincentive, imposed upon counties by federal policy that reimburses counties ONLY for the costs of out-of-home placement of children, even though other alternatives may be more effective, less costly and most importantly, less damaging and traumatic for children and families.
Presently Los Angeles County, along with Alameda County and the State of Florida, have been granted waivers from compliance with that federal policy, and are able to use federal reimbursement dollars in the best interests of child welfare. That waiver is making a very positive difference in Florida outcomes, and under the right child welfare agency leadership, it can do the same in Los Angeles County.
Though we were lucky in the foster care department (incredibly supportive family friends volunteered and were approved to act as our sons' foster parents, although we were not allowed contact with them absent a monitor for many months), our children, my wife, who has multiple sclerosis and whose condition worsened considerably under the stress of the separation, and I endured much emotional trauma. Our family nightmare, which took place in Orange and not LA County, ended when we were reunited ten and one-half months after that horrible day in April, 2009.
Our lives were forever changed -- and not in a good way -- because of an institutional bias toward removing children from their homes that prevails in most places in this country under the current child welfare funding scheme. Far too many families experience similar treatment. THAT's what the fuss is all about.
Yes, child abuse and neglect are real. And yes, child protective services are a necessary thing. However, they need not be the necessary evil which they far too often are. If we are going to provide those services, let's fund them in ways that eliminate institutional bias, give children what is best for their welfare, help deserving families that need help, and improve outcomes, both social and fiscal. Let's get child protection right. * * * * * *